We extrapolated the following guidelines from a Town and Country article by Michela English:
A. It is not polite to spread gossip.
Think what it feels like to be the subject of gossip. And with social media it is even more hurtful as the world can see the unkind words.
B. Do not post photos that you would not want your boss, your mother or your children to see.
Once it’s out there it’s out there forever regardless of how amusing the photo was at the time
C. Politeness and courtesy never go out of style
Please and Thank You matter regardless of where you are from a waiter at a café to a fancy gathering or private club.
D. Table manners still matter
Nothing turns us off more than sitting across from someone using their fork like a shovel or picking their teeth during dinner
E. Beware of that extra drink
How can one be a elegant or gracious if one slurs their words or is unsteady on their feet
F. Do not brag or namedrop. HUMILITY is attractive
“Nobody likes a braggart. If you paid a lot for that Chanel bag, have a gorgeous summer house in Nantucket, and a yacht in St. Tropez, keep it to yourself.”
G. Be an engaging conversationalist
Good conversation is what makes good relationships and friendships, not Instagram photos.
H. Be Kind, Gracious and Confident
Ciao
Lucy an Claudia